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You're walking on eggshells in your own house... And you're so tired of it.

Because every tiny thing can turn into a 45-minute explosion. Wrong cup. "Five more minutes" on screens. Homework time. The sock feels weird. You said "good morning" wrong.

And it's happening 4+ times a week. After school. Bedtime. Mornings. Every single transition.

"Mom, can we do the card thing? My feelings are getting big."

When they start asking for them, you know it's working.

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🃏 54 cards 🎯 6 emotions 📦 Ships Fast 💖 Kids ask
Big Feelings Deck for tweens - emotion regulation cards

USED BY FAMILIES WITH KIDS WHO HAVE:

ADHD Anxiety Sensory Issues Autism Big Feelings
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54 cards. One payment. Use them forever. No apps, no subscriptions, no therapy waitlists. Works tonight.

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Parent struggling with tween or teen meltdowns
"I'm treading on eggshells around my own 9-year-old."
"From zero to 100 and I have no idea what set her off."
"I sound just like my mother when I yell—and I hate that."
"She doesn't want to snuggle anymore."
"My 9-year-old left me in tears this morning."

You're not broken. You're not a bad mom.

You thought tantrums ended in toddlerhood. Now your tween/teen is having full meltdowns. And you feel confused, embarrassed, alone.

And here's the worst part:

You're not just dealing with meltdowns. You're losing your kid.

The snuggles stopped. The easy conversations. The kid who actually wanted to hang out with you.

Now you're scared that if you push, they'll shut down completely. That you're growing apart and there's nothing you can do.

That's what keeps you up at night.

🧠 Here's What Nobody Tells You

Brain development comparison

Your kid's brain literally feels everything 2-3x bigger than you do.

The emotion part? Fully online. Adult-level rage, panic, shame.

The calm-down part? Not there yet. Won't be until they're 25.

So what looks like "being dramatic" is just: their brain SCREAMING with zero tools to turn it down.

Huge accelerator. No brakes.

When you say "homework time" and they explode with "You're ruining my life!"

Or you ask about their day and get: Eye-roll → "YOU DON'T GET IT" → door slam.

Or the group chat drama that owns their whole night.

That's not them being a jerk. That's too many feelings, not enough tools.

The 30-second window before meltdown

🛠 The Window Is 30 Seconds

Between "fine" and "full nuclear."

After that? Brain flooded. Logic offline. Nothing you say lands.

Talking? They can't hear you.

Consequences? Gas on the fire.

Deep breaths? You can't even remember them when you're falling apart too.

You can't logic someone out of brain overwhelm.

They need something external. Concrete. Fast.

I Was You Two Years Ago

Debbie Carter - Creator

Mornings? War zone. One kid couldn't find a shoe. The other fighting about wearing a coat even though it's 18 degrees outside.

I'd end up yelling. Then feeling terrible.

And afternoons? My 10-year-old would walk in from school. I'd say "snack's on the counter." Somehow that would turn into a 45-minute screaming match. Over literally nothing.

I kept snapping. Then feeling like the mean mom.

Nights? I'd sit in my car in the driveway. Just... crying. The "I'm screwing up the most important thing in my life" cry.

I was walking on eggshells in my own house. And we were going from zero to 100—four, five, six times a week. After school. Bedtime. Screens off. Every transition felt like a minefield.

Then one morning she screamed through tears: "You don't even LIKE me anymore!"

And I realized: she's not wrong. I didn't like who I was becoming around her. We were losing each other.

So I reached out to child psychologists at Trailies. Told them everything. And here's what they said:

"You're trying to teach her to regulate AFTER she's already dysregulated. That's like teaching someone to swim while they're drowning."

When she's flooded, her thinking brain is offline. Deep breaths, timeouts, talking—none of that works because she can't access the part of her brain that does those things.

That's why nothing was working.

She needed something external. Concrete. Something she could do when her brain was on fire—not think about after she calmed down.

So we built it. Tested it with real tweens for months. Watching what worked and what got eye-rolls.

The result: 54 cards. Notice the feeling → Name it → Do ONE fast action.

Takes 3 minutes max. Works IN THE MOMENT when you're 30 seconds from a meltdown.

Squeeze your fists. Stomp. Push a wall. Not therapy homework. Just fast tools they can actually use when their brain is flooded.

Sample feeling cards preview

The flow is simple:

Notice what's happening → Name the feeling → Pick ONE action right now.

Takes 3 minutes. You grab a card. Read it together. They do the thing. The explosion either doesn't happen—or you have a tool when it does.

Inside the deck, you'll find 6 feeling categories:

How to use the cards - 3 simple steps

Each Card Includes:

✓ What's happening in their body right now ("Your chest feels tight, your thoughts are racing.")

✓ One fast action (15 seconds to 2 minutes max)

✓ Why it works (brain science in kid language)

✓ Visual cue (so they can grab it themselves later)

Here's What You Get:

The Big Feelings Deck for Ages 8-14+
54 emotion-regulation cards designed specifically for tweens and early teens

📦 Actual cards, shipped to you

Not a PDF. Real cards you can hold when your kid is losing it at 4:47 PM.

⚡ Ships crazy fast

Usually out the door same day. At your house in 3-7 days.

📖 Quick-start guide included

How to get them to actually use these without it feeling like another parent trap.

🗺️ Parent cheat sheet

Which card to pull when. Because in the moment, your brain is mush.

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🃏 54 cards organized by feeling
⏱️ Works in under 3 minutes
💖 Kids start asking for them
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Real parent testimonials

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89% saw fewer explosions in the first week.

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"Week 1: went from 5 meltdowns to 2. Week 4: down to one. We're not the same people who screamed at each other every afternoon."

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"My 11-year-old: 'Mom, the cards help me figure out what I'm actually mad about.' Our 45-minute meltdowns are now 10 minutes max."

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"Screen time used to end in slammed doors EVERY NIGHT. Now he grabs a card. I can breathe again."

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"We got our kid back. Last night we actually laughed before bed instead of arguing. I forgot what that felt like."

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"My daughter asks for a card when she's having big feelings now. She actually recognizes when she needs help. That alone is worth everything."

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Use these for 90 days. If they don't help? Email "refund."

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If they're sitting in a folder you never open, or your kid refuses to use them, or they just don't help your family—I don't want your money.

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How Many More Times?

How many more times will you stand in your kitchen thinking "How is this my Tuesday, Wednesday, AND Thursday?"

Every day you wait is another day of walking on eggshells.

And $49 is less than one therapy copay. One time. To stop feeling like you're failing.

Quick Questions

Wait — are these actual cards or is this digital? →

These are real, printed cards that get shipped to you. The kind you can hold, shuffle, and pull out when they're mid-meltdown.

"My tween will roll their eyes at this."

Maybe at first. But when something helps them feel better? They use it. Start with ONE card at the moment you know is coming. Do it WITH them. Under a minute. When they realize it helps, they'll reach for it themselves.

"My kid has ADHD/autism/anxiety."

Yes. The cards are visual, concrete, fast—exactly what helps ADHD brains. Many parents with neurodivergent kids say these are the first tool that worked. (Still work with professionals if needed—these are skill-building, not therapy replacement.)

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Get the Big Feelings Deck for Ages 8-14+

Big Feelings Deck Package

🃏 54 cards • Ages 8-14+ • 6 feeling categories

$47 $29

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Launch Pricing (normally $79)

After that: $47

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P.S. Tomorrow at 3:30 when they walk in from school, you could be ready. Not bracing. Not hiding. Ready. With a tool that actually works. 90 days to try. Nothing to lose except the eggshells.

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🃏 54 printed cards shipped to your door • ⏱️ Works in the actual moment • 💖 No baby talk, just tools

Tomorrow at 3:30, when they walk in the door, you'll be ready.

Not bracing. Not hiding. Ready.

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